Top 5 Reasons Not to Try Something New

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Whether you’re deciding if you’re going to finally quit your job, or you’re already in business and you’ve been thinking about making some changes to your products or something else, you will need to make decisions.

It’s easy to do this when you’re feeling on top of the world, when you’re on a post-conference or training high, or when you’re floating in a pool lounge on a tropical vacation (how many ultimate life makeovers are planned there?).

It’s not so easy when you realize that making the decision isn’t enough, and following through on it is harder than you thought.

At about this time, your doubts start to outnumber your great ideas. You wonder if you were crazy. You question yourself, and you begin to come up with reasons why you should perhaps reconsider. Here are five:

1. I don’t know enough – Someone else knows more about it than I do. Who am I kidding? Everyone will be able to tell, and I’ll look like I don’t know what I’m doing. Maybe I should just stick with what I’m good at, and forget about it.
2. I’m not ready – Since I don’t know enough about it, I think I’ll wait awhile. Going ahead with something that I’m not sure I can do 110% could actually backfire on me. I’ll take the next several months (insert time) to learn more about it and do it then.
3. I’m not sure it will work – Well, I know that others do this, and have had success. But I’m not sure that it will work for me, or my kind of business. Isn’t it better to stick with a more conservative approach, especially if it’s worked for me so far? It if ain’t broke, why fix it?  Variation: I’ve tried it once and it didn’t work. I worked my butt off, it cost me a lot of money and time, and it didn’t pay off. I’ve learned my lesson.
4. I don’t have enough time – I have too much on my plate right now. I have to make a living and take care of me and my family. What’s the point in starting something if I don’t think I’ll be able to maintain it and devote the effort and time I need to make it a success? I think I better wait. It’s selfish of me to do otherwise.
5. It doesn’t feel right – I trust my instincts. Everything happens for a reason, and the reason I must be having these second thoughts is that I must be on the wrong path. The Universe is sending me a message to stop and revisit.

I can guarantee that you have had one or several of these thoughts yourself. I know this because we all have them, at one time or another.

Unfortunately the internet is full of “experts” who claim to be making tons of money doing very little. They’ll make you feel that buying their expensive programs are the only way to get ahead. They’ll sell you on the idea that you have to pay to play the game.

I attended one event where the expert told people that they were not true entrepreneurs if they were not willing to pay $16,000 to join her group program, because they must not really want it bad enough. If they had second thoughts, they should consider throwing in the towel because they’d never be successful.

As much as I admire this person for her business savvy and expertise in her area of specialty, and I think it’s smart to offer a higher ticket choice for those customers that want that, I couldn’t help but think that the harsh approach crossed the line of preying on people’s insecurities.

See, having them is not the real problem. Letting them stop you is. The fact is, if you’re leaving a job for a business, or you’ve done it already, you can expect this, and more than once. Starting a business does not come with a guarantee. Even once it’s rolling along, you will experience the discomfort of change every time you choose to try something new.

Often these thoughts are just our minds’ way of self protection, and are learned beliefs we’ve picked up along the way. A colleague of mine, Brenda Stanton calls this “collecting evidence”, meaning we start to look for the proof that, in this case, our new idea isn’t meant to be. I call this the Law of Rejection!

One thing I’ve learned, if you go looking, you’ll find it! So why not look instead for all of the reasons why you should stay on your path, and choose to succeed.

Sometimes the second thoughts actually help you, if you scrape the surface and find that there are flaws in your plan, or disconnects between your actions, and your end goal. But if you’ve got a solid foundation, they’re almost never good enough reasons to give up.

As you know, I’m a big advocate of putting in the time up front to explore what you want most passionately, finding ways to bring that passion to form in your service, and determine the best matches for you so that you can design, manage and market your business to attain that extraordinary life you’ve envisioned for yourself.

But although you will benefit from help along the way, and you can learn new skills and hire others when you need to, no one else can make these inner decisions other than you.  Be grateful for the discomfort, because it means you’re growing! Never stop!

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